If you are part of the swinging lifestyle, or would like to be, you might be interested to learn a little something about swingers clubs.
First of all, it may help to define what constitutes a swinger. If you like to have sex with lots of people, that doesn’t necessarily make you a swinger. A rule of thumb about the definition of swingers is that they are couples. Sometimes these couples are heterosexual and sometimes not. But in its most literal sense, the term “swingers” applies to couples. That being said, these swinging couples might choose to engage in sexual activity with another couple, a single male or, more rarely; a single female.
Swingers clubs were nonexistent in the Dark Ages of sexual morality issues. For instance, when swinging first became a slang term associated with couples who liked to have sex with other couples back in the 1950s, the whole concept of swinging was very much a secretive affair. People looking for other swingers had to resort to the personal ads in their local newspapers or magazines and couldn’t actually come right out and forthrightly say what they were looking for even then.
Nowadays, things have changed a lot. Many people believe that the so-called Sexual Revolution had its base in the invention of birth control pills, which does seem like the most likely explanation for why the fixed, narrow rules applying to sexual morality began to relax after thousands of years. With access to a pill that prevented unwanted pregnancies, women in particular were finally able to come out of their sexual closets and have recreational sex for nothing more than the sheer pleasure of the act. Even though swingers came into being prior to the Pill coming on the scene, things were already moving right along to new sexual and morality frontiers in the post-war 50s.
People might choose to check out swingers clubs if they are merely toying with the whole idea of swinging and not quite ready to commit to the swingers lifestyle. You could visit a swingers club and basically sit on the sidelines and observe if you wanted to, in order to get an idea of exactly what goes on and what you might reasonably expect to happen as a swinger.
Swingers clubs may have their own individual sets of rules and policies, so it would behoove you to check them out before visiting a club.
If you are a swinging couple visiting a swingers club, you can usually expect to pay a moderate admittance or cover charge to gain entrance to the club. If you are a single male, you can normally expect to pay a higher fee to get into swingers clubs than couples. If you are a single female who visits swingers clubs, you probably won’t be required to pay any admittance charge at all.
Swingers clubs can be great places to connect and have wild, uninhibited sex with other swingers! To locate swingers clubs close to you, first get on the internet and search for adult dating sites for your area of Australia or New Zealand. Many of these websites that are geared toward adult dating will also provide plenty of info about swingers clubs as well as swingers parties close to you.
So, if swinging sounds like your idea of a good time—check out swingers clubs today and start enjoying new experiences tonight!